Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Don't Lose Hope in Love

I was looking through my old blog and found an entry last 2005 where I wrote:


maybe God is still busy writing the best love story for me. So I'll sit and wait and pray. PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE..........as they say.



Well, God indeed was so busy writing it for me that I got my love story around 2009. It was worth the wait though. Yes there were times I'd get frustrated because I wasn't particularly interested in anyone. Literally. Not one man gave me that hummingbird heartbeat. There were guys who were brave enough to confess their feelings and it was so hard to turn them down, because some of them have become my friends...and I knew if I tell them I was only into their friendship, I'd lose them. But sometimes we just have to do the things we do. God works in weird ways. And my love story is as unique as those who have found their true loves.

I have been bumping into this guy in the office, and I have a habit of saying HI to anyone I run into even if I do not know them. This particular guy never said hi back. But I never knew I'd come to like him, even love him...because I found him arrogant...and not so PINOY. Lol. Then I heard about a guy who wants to be introduced to me, just out of curiosity I went out of my way to give him a visit and I'd like to think we became good friends. I was surprised that the guy whom I found arrogant was this guy's friend. But I gave it no mind. Every time I take time out of my day to hangout with them arrogant guy always talks to me, entertains me...more than anyone around. Well, that kind of caught my attention...and it was then I started to have interest. Though I heard a lot of negative things about him, I wasn't really ready to get into a relationship. I was not hoping for one. I was hoping for friendship so to say. Little did I know he felt the same. And it started there. Because things were complicated then, we used to hide....or go out after office hours so people won't see. Until we fix things. And we did. God wrote me a very colorful love story...so vivid that now I am married to that guy, who I know I love so much, and loves me as much.

So to those who feel hopeless, again :

maybe God is still busy writing the best love story for me. So I'll sit and wait and pray. PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE..........as they say.